Making Out Tips

Posted on January 4, 2011
Filed Under Getting Ready To Make Out, Making Out Basics | 1 Comment

Nobody is a “born kisser”. It’s an acquired skill that everyone has to learn. The problem with trying to become a good kisser is that you can only learn “on the job”. There’s no way to practice making out without actually doing it with another person. To make things a little easier for you, here are some basic making out tips that you can incorporate into your skill set.

Set the right mood – If you’re new to kissing and making out then chances are so is your partner. You can ease the tension a bit by doing a little preparation to set a romantic mood. Dim the lights and light some candles. There’s nothing more romantic than the soft glow of candlelight and seeing those tiny little flames flickering. Put on some soft, soothing music. It may seem corny but music really does alter a person’s mood, so instead of some kind of loud, bass pumping jams try some light jazz, something like Kenny G. And make sure your place is neat! Nobody wants to start making out while laying on top of your dirty laundry! This is the easiest making out tip to accomplish. There is no reason not to do it.

Good hygiene – This one is a no-brainer but often gets overlooked. Brush your teeth! Making sure you have a clean, fresh mouth is essential before a make out session. Use a minty mouth wash after brushing too. Take a shower and use deodorant and perfume/cologne (but not too much, just a small amount). Make sure your hair is clean and styled and that your skin is as clean and smooth as you can get it. Clean clothes that have a nice pressed look to them will help too, but that’s secondary to the bodily hygiene stuff.

Study body language – If you want to know what the other person is really thinking, its a good idea to pay attention to their body language. What they communicate with their body will tell you things that they may never put into words. Look for telltale signs that they are interested. Things like are they leaning into you, listening intently or are they leaning back away from you? Is your partner a girl playing with her hair? If so, how is she playing with it? If she’s sitting there twirling it around her finger over and over again it may be a sign that she’s bored. If she’s brushing the hair from her face and tucking it behind her ear then she may be interested in you seeing her whole face or making sure nothing’s in the way for your lips. There are tons of visual cues that you can pick up on if you pay attention. Search the web for more body language info.

Learn some massage – A lot of people think they are good at giving a massage, but the truth is that most aren’t. The classic mistake is to push or squeeze too hard or in the wrong areas. Take a class or get a professional massage yourself and ask the masseuse for tips. You just need to know how to massage the shoulders and maybe the back and arms. Anything else really isn’t pertinent to making out. Massage is a really sensual act and if you can do it right it will help relax the other person and make an intimate connection between the two of you.

These four making out tips are relatively simple but will really improve your chances of having a successful make out session. You might have to put in a little work learning body language and massage but it will be worth it. You will learn skills that are useful in many situations, not just for making out. If you have any other making out tips, I would love to hear them. Leave them in the comments section below.