The Basics Of How To Make Out

Posted on April 20, 2009
Filed Under Making Out Basics

Chances are, if you are at this site then you haven’t had much luck with the opposite sex.  You are unsure of how to act, what to do and when to do it.  Well, we are here to help!  Before we get into anything too fancy we need to cover the basics, so this post will assume that you know nothing and go from there.  This is an awkward subject for some people to discuss, but at this site, I will always try to describe things in a clinical way, while using some slang to try to get my point across.  This is a “no judgment zone” here, so feel free to ask anything in the comments section.  Remember, on this site you are anonymous!

The term “making out” is generally used to mean the act of kissing (usually for long periods of time and with some intensity).  We’re not talking about light kisses on the cheek here, we mean full-on tongue kissing!  Often hugging and some form of caressing or rubbing is added into the mix too.

Making out can be very satisfying all by itself, but it is often just the starting point for couples.  The act of making out and fondling each other tends to intensify over time and as the sexual excitement builds up, sexual intercourse often occurs after a good make out session.

So, how exactly do you make out?  Well, it usually begins with a light kiss, the kind where your lips are puckered up and you don’t make contact for very long.  After a series of these (maybe about 3 or 4), you progress to an open mouth kiss.  You might not want to use your tongue right away thought, you should ease into it slowly.  A good make out session can’t feel rushed and you shouldn’t be in any big hurry.  Take your time and ease into it slowly.  It’s often hard to remember this because you are so excited and nervous, but nothing will kill the mood faster than shoving your tongue into your partners mouth before he or she is ready!

After 2 or 3 open mouthed kisses, lightly and gently flick your tongue into their mouth.  You’re doing this partly to test the waters to see how your partner reacts.  If they respond to your tongue in a positive way (by using their tongue too) then they have given you the green light to continue.  If they back off and don’t engage your tongue, you may want to slow down and maybe even stop kissing and ask them if they are OK with what’s going on.

If your partner has met your tongue with his or hers, then you are good to go!  Just keep kissing!  Move your head from side to side (slowly!) and most of all, have fun!

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