Posted on April 22, 2009
Filed Under Use Your Hands To Make Out
Now that you already know the basics of how to make out, it’s time to expand on that a little bit and discuss what else you can do while you are kissing your partner. It would be very unnatural to just stand there with your arms at your side while playing tonsil hockey!
To enhance the experience you should use your hands to caress your partner’s face, run your fingers through his/her hair and maybe even grope other parts of their body. A lot of this will depend on what type of relationship you have with your kissing partner. If this was a second or third date, you probably shouldn’t grope too much (unless this is just a one-night stand type thing, but if you were having a one-night stand you probably aren’t reading a website looking for pointers about how to kiss, right?)
One of the easiest, most natural things you can do with your hands while kissing is to simply hug the other person and slowly rub your hands around on their back and shoulders. You can move on to the sides of their body, squeezing gently at certain points. This helps give a feeling of intimacy and closeness, while still not invaded his/her space too much if the relationship isn’t ready for heavier action just yet.
Take a few seconds to back away from kissing and cup your partner’s face in your hands and admire it. Study the shape of the lips and nose, feel the soft cheeks, look into their eyes, then dive back into deep kisses. If it’s early in a relationship, this type of behavior might be where it stops. But if you’re ready to move on to more advanced making out techniques, read on!
Many couples use making out as a lead-in to sex, so you begin by simple kissing and gradually progress, as things get hotter and more passionate, to sex. One way to get the blood pumping is by using your hands during kissing to caress your partner’s body. Grab and squeeze his or her butt, maybe even spank it lightly. If your partner is a woman, cup her breasts and give them gentle squeezes. Run your fingers over the nipples to arouse her.
Ran your hands along your partner’s crotch area to really get things hot and heavy. Experiment with grasping your partner’s hands in yours and putting your hands over your head, giving a slight feeling of bondage and being trapped.
As I stated earlier, a lot of what you will do during your make-out session depends on how advanced your relationship is and what you both feel comfortable with. My advice is to start out slow and above the waist and gradually work your way to the other, more intimate areas of the body. Good luck!